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Sex isn’t just physical… and deep down, you know that. Let’s talk about soul ties, and how to break them for good.WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZojscaKClg&t=2529sEver felt stuck after a breakup? Like something deeper is still holding on?That might be a soul tie.In this raw and real convo, we unpack what soul ties actually are, how they form (hint: it’s not just sex), and why they can leave you feeling spiritually weighed down.We break down the Bible’s view on soul ties, how the enemy uses them to twist intimacy, and how Jesus brings full freedom and healing.Elles shares her own story of getting tangled in an unhealthy soul tie, and how God broke the cycle.If you're feeling tied to your past, this episode is your sign: God’s ready to set you free.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰ =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:51) - Soul ties(3:51) - What even is a soul tie?(4:13) - Souls knitting together(5:23) - The context of marriage(5:33) - Sex means easy access(6:14) - God

Ten episodes. A whole lot of healing.In this final episode of Work Club, we’re looking back on the wild, beautiful journey of unpacking our pain, facing fears, and letting God reshape how we do relationships. From shame to identity, family wounds to freedom—we didn’t hold back.Here’s what stuck with us. What surprised us. What changed us.God didn’t just show up—He flipped the script.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:38) - Biggest Breakthroughs from WorkClub(1:49) - Sam: Fear of Success (3:40) - Erin: Getting Rid of Fear (6:00) - Cliff Jumping(7:38) - Daniel Opens Up(11:00) - Sam’s Fear Encounter(13:20)  - Elles & Hard Convos(15:35) - Daniel & Changing the Narrative(21:20) - Ingram & Graduating from Shame(25:40) - God Sees Us as His Children(28:00) - Final Thoughts(28:10) - Compassion & Connection & CS Lewis(30:19) - Hindsight Brings Clarity=============================Miss the first

Joy isn’t just a vibe—it’s a weapon.But let’s be honest: shame, comparison, and pressure steal it way too easily.In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling out the real joy-killers and sharing how we’re learning to fight for joy in a world that pushes quick fixes over deep fulfillment. From “puffy peace” to surrendering our own standards, this convo is raw, honest, and all about choosing the kind of joy that lasts.Because the joy of the Lord isn’t a cliché—it’s how we survive.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:07) - Finding Joy and Emotional Balance(1:35) - When was the last time you truly felt joyFULL?(1:41) - Erin the Stylist(2:48) - Ingram: Eye Contact(3:14) - Sam: Starting A Business(4:50) - A DEEP Sense of Fulfillment(5:24) - Building(6:09) - Puffy Peace(9:00) - Good Stewardship Brings Joy(10:02) - Don’t Waste Time Chasing Happiness(10:36) - Happiness is Consumed, but Joy is Created(11:50) - Joy R

If your worth isn’t your talent, your title, or your output… then what is it?This week on Work Club, we’re stripping it all back—the stuff that’s replaced Jesus in our lives, the ways we tie our identity to our performance, and the pressure we put on ourselves to be enough.We’re talking about what’s left when you lose everything you leaned on.About why real self-worth isn’t earned.And about how God calls us valuable—not because of what we do, but because of who He is.This isn’t a quick fix. It’s a lifelong journey.But it’s where real freedom starts. It’s not easy. But it’s real. And it’s time.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:16) - The Grapple: Self Worth(1:35) - Ingram: Knowing v. Experiencing(2:52) - What took the place of Jesus?(4:10) - This is a Lifelong Journey(4:46) - Identity is Relational(7:10)  - Stripped: What’s left when EVERYTHING is gone?(9:48) - How Do We Not Tie Our Performance and Self Worth

We all cope—but not all coping brings healing.In this episode of Work Club, we’re getting brutally honest about the stuff we run to when life hits hard. Because let’s be real: you can’t walk in freedom if you’re avoiding the very thing that needs healing.So we’re going there—into the blackhole.The numb-out habits. The distractions. The survival strategies that feel good in the moment... but keep us stuck.We’re talking about what it looks like to actually face pain—with Jesus, with Scripture, and with people who won’t let you hide.Inside this episode: What Ephesians 4 says about getting truly free How to tell if your coping is healing or hurting you And why breakthrough sometimes starts with two questions: How am I feeling? What do I need?This isn’t just about mental health. It’s about spiritual maturity. It’s about identity. It’s about letting God into the mess—not just after you’ve cleaned it up.This is Episode 7 of Work Club.And yeah, we’re still in process—but we’re done pretending we’re not.Don’t forge

What if the thing you’re avoiding is the key to the connection you’re craving?We all want real connection—but you can’t have intimacy if you’re avoiding conflict.In Episode 6 of Work Club, we’re talking conflict avoidance, peacekeeping vs. peacemaking, and the real cost of staying silent.From fights to forgiveness, we’re sharing the hard convos that brought healing—and why the connection you want might be on the other side of the one you’re avoiding.Be sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00)-  Intro(2:06) - Sam’s Revelation: Fear of Success(7:55) - Why do we tend to avoid conflict?(8:15) - Conflict Avoidance(10:54) - Avoiding Conflict is Avoiding Intimacy(11:40) - Peacemakers vs Peacekeepers(14:27) - What’s the hardest conversation you’ve ever had?(15:07) - Erin’s Convo (Commitment to connection)(17:35) - Ingram’s convo(18:45) - You can only control yourself(20:00) - Recovering after the convo(21:54) - Daniel’s hard conversat

You don’t have to live by the lies you’ve believed—this episode is all about rewriting the story you tell yourself.We all carry stories—about our worth, our identity, and our place in the world. But what if the story playing in your head isn’t the one God’s telling?In this episode, we confront the lies that sneak into our self-talk: • Feeling like you’re not enough • Giving without getting anything back • Letting assumptions shape your relationships • Missing the small moments that could shift everythingAnd most importantly—we talk about how God’s grace rewrites the script.If you’ve ever struggled with shame, comparison, or feeling unseen, this one’s for you. Let’s replace false narratives with God’s truth and step into the freedom of who He’s really made us to be.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(3:00) - People are thinking the worst of me(4:40) - I could do that if ______(5:30) - I’m not doing enough(5:58) - Reciprocation - I don’t get what I give(7:10) -

Shame doesn’t just make you feel bad—it messes with your head, distorts your identity, and makes you want to disappear. In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling it out. From secret struggles to perfectionism, we’re talking about the real ways shame shows up—and how Jesus sets us free.Ingram and Daniel get super honest about their own stories, how shame had them stuck, and how the Gospel broke through. We’re also unpacking the difference between guilt and shame (yes, there’s a huge difference), and why knowing who you are in Christ changes everything.If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide the messy parts of your life—this episode is for you.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:30) - What’s the Difference Between Guilt and Shame?(4:05) - Daniel’s Experience(6:32) - Shame Makes Us Hide(6:55) - Butt or Buck?(8:40) - Guilt: An Invitation Into Shame(9:30) - Ingram’s Relationship with Shame(12:10) - Shame &am

Why do you still feel stuck, even when you’re trying to do all the right things?We all battle fear. Fear of failure. Fear of not being enough. Fear of being too much.In episode 3 of Work Club, we’re naming the fears that keep us stuck—and exposing the lies behind them. From imposter syndrome to hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and the pressure to be perfect—we’re calling out the real stuff that shapes our relationships, our faith, and our future.This isn’t self-help. This is surrender.Because if you want to walk in freedom, you’ve got to face what’s been holding you back.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Welcome to Episode 3!(1:32) - Fear: The #1 Thing Holding You Back(3:15) - Hyper-Independence vs. Codependency: The Switch(6:03) - Fear of Insignifigance(8:37) - Self-Sufficiency Will Only Keep You Stuck(10:12) - Imposter Syndrome: Who Do You Really Think You Are?(11:50) - Sam’s Hot Take (13:34) - Trusting Go

We all carry baggage. The question is—what are you doing with it?In episode 2 of Work Club, we’re diving into the emotional weight we carry from past experiences, and how it shows up in our relationships today. From defensiveness in conflict to perfectionism, fear, and feeling like your needs don’t matter—we’re unpacking the hidden stuff that’s easy to ignore but hard to live with.This isn’t therapy, but it’s real. And it’s what healing looks like when you do it in community.We’re not just talking about what we should set down—we’re sharing what we’re working on laying down right now, in real time.Because if you want to live in God’s design for sex and relationships, you’ve got to get honest about what’s actually in your bag.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:21) - Identifying emotional baggage (2:35) - The role of defensiveness in hiding emotional baggage(12:00) - How to regulate defensiveness and your

We talk a lot about God’s design for sex and relationships—but here’s the thing most people don’t realize: You can’t live that design well if you’re carrying unprocessed pain.That’s why we’re launching Work Club—a 10-episode podcast miniseries from the team at Moral Revolution.As a group of people committed to helping Christians pursue God’s design for relationships, we know healing doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens in community.So we decided to go first.We’re coworkers, friends, and followers of Jesus, inviting you into the real, unfiltered conversations we’re having behind the scenes about what we’re working on—and how God’s working on us.Episode 1 is all about family dynamics in young adulthood. Because sometimes the hardest part of healing is facing the patterns you grew up in.We’re talking:

Valentine’s season is here, and if you’re single, you might be wondering: Am I actually ready for a relationship?In this episode, we’re bringing in the whole Moral Revolution team to dive deep into this question!We’ll unpack the non-negotiables you need before pursuing a relationship, the biggest signs that you might not be ready yet, and how healing, self-awareness, and God’s timing all play a role in healthy dating.Plus, we’re tackling listener-submitted questions like: Can I date while healing from sexual trauma? What’s a normal level of thinking about my ex before I go on more dates?Why do I feel so much anxiety about dating, and what can I do about it?Whether you’re single and unsure, healing from past relationships, or just want to date with wisdom, this conversation is for you! BONUS: We created a free quiz called “Am I Actually Ready for a Relationship?”  that will help you figure out where you stand.Take the quiz here.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================

Have you ever acted out sexually or given in to temptation and wondered, ‘Why did I do that?’ In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful connection between emotions, needs, and the choices we make. We’ll unpack why understanding your feelings and expressing your needs is essential for overcoming temptation, breaking free from cycles of sexual sin, and building healthier, whole relationships. We’re sharing practical tools like the Emotion Wheel, key questions to ask yourself when you’re facing temptation, and biblical wisdom on the importance of community. Whether you’re looking for healing or just want to deepen your relational and emotional health, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to steward your soul with wisdom and grace. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for more support? Join the Date Well community ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(3:31) - Stewarding your soul(4:43) - What

Are you ready to level up your relationships this year? In this episode, we’re breaking down what’s in and what’s out when it comes to building healthy, God-honoring connections in 2025. From saying “yes” to first dates, setting clear boundaries, and embracing healing, to ditching overthinking, ghosting, and settling, we’re covering it all. This is your go-to guide for navigating love, dating, and singleness with clarity and conviction. Whether you’re single, dating, or just figuring it out, this episode will help you align your relationship goals with God’s plan and step confidently into the new year. Looking for more support? Join the Date Well community ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/Make sure to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(3:24) - What’s IN in 2025?(3:40) - Healthy Connection(4:55) - Healing(6:34) - Saying “yes” to first dates(8:25) - Living with conviction, even if it’s not popular(9:18) - Identifying y

What a year it’s been here at Moral Revolution! We’ve answered so many of your questions around God’s design for sex, relationships and morality.  Today we’re taking a look back at some of the best conversations we had at Moral Revolution this year! Want to listen to the full episodes clipped in this episode? You can find the links below! Why You're Not Getting Free From Porn ft Aaron Zint  Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Sex, Jesus, & The Conversations The Church Forgot ft Mo Isom Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. The Christian Response to Pride Month - ft/Elizabeth Woning  Listen on  Apple. Listen on Spotify. Your Burning Questions About Sex, Dating, and Boundaries (part 1) Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. How To Break Up & Recover -ft/Abram Goff & Alley Vallotton  Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Dealing With Relationship Anxiety - ft/Jason Vallotton Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter TELLS ALL (part 1)  Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Don’t forg

Have you ever felt like the holiday season amplifies your loneliness? While everyone else seems surrounded by joy and connection, you might feel left out or overwhelmed by the weight of being alone. In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, we’re addressing one of the hardest parts of the holidays: loneliness. But it doesn’t have to define your season. We’re sharing five practical tools to help you navigate this time with intention and find joy, connection, and purpose.Here’s what you can expect: Why being honest about your emotions is key to healing How to create a holiday bucket list that brings joy and meaning Starting your own traditions when life feels uncertain Ways to be intentional with friends and family during this season How to finish the year strong and step into 2025 with purpose We’re also sharing the vision for our “Let’s Talk About It” end-of-year campaign, where you can join us in equipping a generation to have conversations about God’s design for sex, relationships, and life. Tune in now and

Have you ever avoided a tough conversation because it felt too messy? Whether it’s setting boundaries, asking for help, or confronting someone, hard conversations are where real growth begins. In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, we’re teaching you how to talk about it. We’re diving into why hard conversations matter and giving you practical tools for some of the hardest conversations in your life. We’ll walk you step-by-step through 6 of the hardest conversations you may need to have:

Have you ever crossed a physical boundary in your relationship and then found things feeling… weird? Maybe you’ve been there—things start out great, but then suddenly you’re arguing more, second-guessing everything, or feeling distant. What’s up with that? In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: why crossing physical boundaries in dating can mess with your emotions, your connection with each other, and even your relationship with God. We’ll talk about how physical intimacy bonds you in ways you might not realize, why it can make trust and respect harder to build, and how to avoid that awkward “what now?” feeling. We’ll also share practical tips for healing, setting better boundaries, and getting back on track if things have gotten complicated. You’re not too far gone—there’s always hope for a fresh start. Tune in now and learn how to keep things from getting messy! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://shop.mora

Is it possible to have a close friendship with someone of the opposite sex without things getting messy? In this episode, we’re diving into all things healthy friendships vs. codependency, what to do when you’re friends with someone of the opposite gender and one of you catches feelings, and navigating friendship transitions when the other person starts dating someone else. With practical tips on setting boundaries and communicating clearly, we’re here to help you build meaningful friendships with wisdom and grace.Tune in now and learn how to navigate cross-gender friendships well! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:40) - Healthy friendships vs codependency(7:16) - What should you do if someone catches feelings?(16:02) - The expiration date on cross-gendered friendships(24:00) - Practical tips for healthy f

If you’ve ever felt like you had to keep parts of yourself hidden, this episode’s for you. We’re diving into the power of shame—the thing that keeps us feeling unworthy, alone, and distant from God. Learn the difference between guilt and shame (hint: guilt is about actions; shame’s about identity) and how shame shows up in our relationships, making us hide our true selves. In this episode, we dive into why vulnerability and confession are game-changers, with real-life stories and practical steps to help you break free. Ready to stop hiding? Tune in and start living fully known and loved. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/  ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:50) - The difference between guilt and shame (3:27) - How shame causes us to go into cycles of self protection (4:53) - The methods we use to hide our shame  (9:44) - Scripture’