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You don’t have to live by the lies you’ve believed—this episode is all about rewriting the story you tell yourself.We all carry stories—about our worth, our identity, and our place in the world. But what if the story playing in your head isn’t the one God’s telling?In this episode, we confront the lies that sneak into our self-talk: • Feeling like you’re not enough • Giving without getting anything back • Letting assumptions shape your relationships • Missing the small moments that could shift everythingAnd most importantly—we talk about how God’s grace rewrites the script.If you’ve ever struggled with shame, comparison, or feeling unseen, this one’s for you. Let’s replace false narratives with God’s truth and step into the freedom of who He’s really made us to be.=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(3:00) - People are thinking the worst of me(4:40) - I could do that if ______(5:30) - I’m not doing enough(5:58) - Reciprocation - I don’t get what I give(7:10) -

Shame doesn’t just make you feel bad—it messes with your head, distorts your identity, and makes you want to disappear. In this episode of Work Club, we’re calling it out. From secret struggles to perfectionism, we’re talking about the real ways shame shows up—and how Jesus sets us free.Ingram and Daniel get super honest about their own stories, how shame had them stuck, and how the Gospel broke through. We’re also unpacking the difference between guilt and shame (yes, there’s a huge difference), and why knowing who you are in Christ changes everything.If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide the messy parts of your life—this episode is for you.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:30) - What’s the Difference Between Guilt and Shame?(4:05) - Daniel’s Experience(6:32) - Shame Makes Us Hide(6:55) - Butt or Buck?(8:40) - Guilt: An Invitation Into Shame(9:30) - Ingram’s Relationship with Shame(12:10) - Shame &am

Why do you still feel stuck, even when you’re trying to do all the right things?We all battle fear. Fear of failure. Fear of not being enough. Fear of being too much.In episode 3 of Work Club, we’re naming the fears that keep us stuck—and exposing the lies behind them. From imposter syndrome to hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and the pressure to be perfect—we’re calling out the real stuff that shapes our relationships, our faith, and our future.This isn’t self-help. This is surrender.Because if you want to walk in freedom, you’ve got to face what’s been holding you back.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Welcome to Episode 3!(1:32) - Fear: The #1 Thing Holding You Back(3:15) - Hyper-Independence vs. Codependency: The Switch(6:03) - Fear of Insignifigance(8:37) - Self-Sufficiency Will Only Keep You Stuck(10:12) - Imposter Syndrome: Who Do You Really Think You Are?(11:50) - Sam’s Hot Take (13:34) - Trusting Go

We all carry baggage. The question is—what are you doing with it?In episode 2 of Work Club, we’re diving into the emotional weight we carry from past experiences, and how it shows up in our relationships today. From defensiveness in conflict to perfectionism, fear, and feeling like your needs don’t matter—we’re unpacking the hidden stuff that’s easy to ignore but hard to live with.This isn’t therapy, but it’s real. And it’s what healing looks like when you do it in community.We’re not just talking about what we should set down—we’re sharing what we’re working on laying down right now, in real time.Because if you want to live in God’s design for sex and relationships, you’ve got to get honest about what’s actually in your bag.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!=============================⏰ Timecodes ⏰=============================(0:00) - Intro(1:21) - Identifying emotional baggage (2:35) - The role of defensiveness in hiding emotional baggage(12:00) - How to regulate defensiveness and your

We talk a lot about God’s design for sex and relationships—but here’s the thing most people don’t realize: You can’t live that design well if you’re carrying unprocessed pain.That’s why we’re launching Work Club—a 10-episode podcast miniseries from the team at Moral Revolution.As a group of people committed to helping Christians pursue God’s design for relationships, we know healing doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens in community.So we decided to go first.We’re coworkers, friends, and followers of Jesus, inviting you into the real, unfiltered conversations we’re having behind the scenes about what we’re working on—and how God’s working on us.Episode 1 is all about family dynamics in young adulthood. Because sometimes the hardest part of healing is facing the patterns you grew up in.We’re talking:

Valentine’s season is here, and if you’re single, you might be wondering: Am I actually ready for a relationship?In this episode, we’re bringing in the whole Moral Revolution team to dive deep into this question!We’ll unpack the non-negotiables you need before pursuing a relationship, the biggest signs that you might not be ready yet, and how healing, self-awareness, and God’s timing all play a role in healthy dating.Plus, we’re tackling listener-submitted questions like: Can I date while healing from sexual trauma? What’s a normal level of thinking about my ex before I go on more dates?Why do I feel so much anxiety about dating, and what can I do about it?Whether you’re single and unsure, healing from past relationships, or just want to date with wisdom, this conversation is for you! BONUS: We created a free quiz called “Am I Actually Ready for a Relationship?”  that will help you figure out where you stand.Take the quiz here.Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================

Have you ever acted out sexually or given in to temptation and wondered, ‘Why did I do that?’ In this episode, we’re diving into the powerful connection between emotions, needs, and the choices we make. We’ll unpack why understanding your feelings and expressing your needs is essential for overcoming temptation, breaking free from cycles of sexual sin, and building healthier, whole relationships. We’re sharing practical tools like the Emotion Wheel, key questions to ask yourself when you’re facing temptation, and biblical wisdom on the importance of community. Whether you’re looking for healing or just want to deepen your relational and emotional health, this episode is for you. Tune in to learn how to steward your soul with wisdom and grace. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for more support? Join the Date Well community ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(3:31) - Stewarding your soul(4:43) - What

Are you ready to level up your relationships this year? In this episode, we’re breaking down what’s in and what’s out when it comes to building healthy, God-honoring connections in 2025. From saying “yes” to first dates, setting clear boundaries, and embracing healing, to ditching overthinking, ghosting, and settling, we’re covering it all. This is your go-to guide for navigating love, dating, and singleness with clarity and conviction. Whether you’re single, dating, or just figuring it out, this episode will help you align your relationship goals with God’s plan and step confidently into the new year. Looking for more support? Join the Date Well community ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/Make sure to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode!============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(3:24) - What’s IN in 2025?(3:40) - Healthy Connection(4:55) - Healing(6:34) - Saying “yes” to first dates(8:25) - Living with conviction, even if it’s not popular(9:18) - Identifying y

What a year it’s been here at Moral Revolution! We’ve answered so many of your questions around God’s design for sex, relationships and morality.  Today we’re taking a look back at some of the best conversations we had at Moral Revolution this year! Want to listen to the full episodes clipped in this episode? You can find the links below! Why You're Not Getting Free From Porn ft Aaron Zint  Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Sex, Jesus, & The Conversations The Church Forgot ft Mo Isom Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. The Christian Response to Pride Month - ft/Elizabeth Woning  Listen on  Apple. Listen on Spotify. Your Burning Questions About Sex, Dating, and Boundaries (part 1) Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. How To Break Up & Recover -ft/Abram Goff & Alley Vallotton  Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Dealing With Relationship Anxiety - ft/Jason Vallotton Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter TELLS ALL (part 1)  Listen on Apple. Listen on Spotify. Don’t forg

Have you ever felt like the holiday season amplifies your loneliness? While everyone else seems surrounded by joy and connection, you might feel left out or overwhelmed by the weight of being alone. In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, we’re addressing one of the hardest parts of the holidays: loneliness. But it doesn’t have to define your season. We’re sharing five practical tools to help you navigate this time with intention and find joy, connection, and purpose.Here’s what you can expect: Why being honest about your emotions is key to healing How to create a holiday bucket list that brings joy and meaning Starting your own traditions when life feels uncertain Ways to be intentional with friends and family during this season How to finish the year strong and step into 2025 with purpose We’re also sharing the vision for our “Let’s Talk About It” end-of-year campaign, where you can join us in equipping a generation to have conversations about God’s design for sex, relationships, and life. Tune in now and

Have you ever avoided a tough conversation because it felt too messy? Whether it’s setting boundaries, asking for help, or confronting someone, hard conversations are where real growth begins. In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, we’re teaching you how to talk about it. We’re diving into why hard conversations matter and giving you practical tools for some of the hardest conversations in your life. We’ll walk you step-by-step through 6 of the hardest conversations you may need to have:

Have you ever crossed a physical boundary in your relationship and then found things feeling… weird? Maybe you’ve been there—things start out great, but then suddenly you’re arguing more, second-guessing everything, or feeling distant. What’s up with that? In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: why crossing physical boundaries in dating can mess with your emotions, your connection with each other, and even your relationship with God. We’ll talk about how physical intimacy bonds you in ways you might not realize, why it can make trust and respect harder to build, and how to avoid that awkward “what now?” feeling. We’ll also share practical tips for healing, setting better boundaries, and getting back on track if things have gotten complicated. You’re not too far gone—there’s always hope for a fresh start. Tune in now and learn how to keep things from getting messy! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://shop.mora

Is it possible to have a close friendship with someone of the opposite sex without things getting messy? In this episode, we’re diving into all things healthy friendships vs. codependency, what to do when you’re friends with someone of the opposite gender and one of you catches feelings, and navigating friendship transitions when the other person starts dating someone else. With practical tips on setting boundaries and communicating clearly, we’re here to help you build meaningful friendships with wisdom and grace.Tune in now and learn how to navigate cross-gender friendships well! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:40) - Healthy friendships vs codependency(7:16) - What should you do if someone catches feelings?(16:02) - The expiration date on cross-gendered friendships(24:00) - Practical tips for healthy f

If you’ve ever felt like you had to keep parts of yourself hidden, this episode’s for you. We’re diving into the power of shame—the thing that keeps us feeling unworthy, alone, and distant from God. Learn the difference between guilt and shame (hint: guilt is about actions; shame’s about identity) and how shame shows up in our relationships, making us hide our true selves. In this episode, we dive into why vulnerability and confession are game-changers, with real-life stories and practical steps to help you break free. Ready to stop hiding? Tune in and start living fully known and loved. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/  ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:50) - The difference between guilt and shame (3:27) - How shame causes us to go into cycles of self protection (4:53) - The methods we use to hide our shame  (9:44) - Scripture’

Why do we fall for toxic people? Why do we go for the things in a relationship we know aren’t healthy or good for us? Let’s talk about it. In this episode, we’re breaking down why so many of us get drawn into toxic relationships, even in Christian spaces. We cover six red flags of toxic people—like manipulation, control, and emotional abuse—and how to tell the difference between normal flaws and toxic traits. We’re diving into how your past, family dynamics, and unmet needs might be wiring you for chaos instead of peace. Plus, we’ll look at biblical stories like Samson and Delilah to show how toxic patterns can lead to destruction. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a toxic cycle or want to help a friend who’s struggling, this episode offers practical steps to break free and find healing. Tune in now and learn how to break the toxic cycles in your relationships. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.

Have you ever wondered if your dating standards are too high? In this episode, we’re breaking down the critical difference between preferences and standards, and how understanding this distinction can transform your dating life. Many Christians find themselves stuck, unsure if their preferences are holding them back from the relationship God has for them. This conversation offers clarity on how to navigate these feelings, while examining what truly matters in a lasting, God-centered relationship. We dive into the common struggle of opposites attracting and then clashing, and explore how to redefine the "list" of qualities you've made for a partner. If you've ever questioned whether a relationship is missing something or felt frustrated with God's timing, this episode will help you reassess your approach and better align your relationship goals with His plan. You’ll gain fresh insights on what constitutes a nonnegotiable standard versus a negotiable preference, while also learning to trus

She left OnlyFans and found Jesus – now she’s on a mission to expose the truth. ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:03) - Immediately after leaving OnlyFans (6:38) - Becoming an advocate against OnlyFans (14:39) - God doesn’t waste any season (15:55) - What it looks like to radically rely on God (22:30) - God has a plan for you is better than you can fathom (25:03) - Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter’s message to the church ============================= In part two of this compelling conversation, former OnlyFans recruiter Victoria Sinis continues her powerful testimony, revealing what happened after she walked away from the OnlyFans industry. Victoria opens up about the immediate challenges she faced, including backlash and doubts, as she transitioned from recruiter to advocate against OnlyFans. This episode dives deep into how Victoria became a vocal critic of the industry she once supported, sharing how her faith in God led her to a life of purpose and advocacy.

She used to recruit girls to do OnlyFans, but then she met Jesus. Now she’s exposing the dark side of the porn industry.  ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (2:35) - How Victoria started working for an OnlyFans agency (4:14) - Misconceptions around OnlyFans (6:35) - How redefining language is dangerous (7:42) - How the party life of drugs and alcohol leaves you empty (11:41) - What is OnlyFans? (14:17) - How an OnlyFans Agency really works (16:08) - Average wage of Only Fans workers and how the enemy distorts our vision (23:40) - Behind the curtain of marketing for Only Fans (29:45) - A day in the life of an OnlyFans Recruiter (32:15) - Shattering the illusion of fulfillment (36:12) - How her agency recruited girls to OnlyFans (38:35) -  Victoria’s eyes were opened to the evil happening behind the scenes (42:03) - Victoria’s radical conversion and encounter with God (46:21) - How God meets us in the darkest places of our lives and loves us back to life (49:03) - A messag

Breaking up is never easy, but understanding the process can help you move forward. Breakups - it's the often unavoidable part of dating. They have to happen in all but one of your dating relationships, but could you do it in a way that doesn’t leave you scarred or wounded? We’re here to help you break up in such a way that it leaves you both with a clear sense of closure and freedom to move on as healthy and whole as possible. In this episode, we dive into the complexities of ending a relationship and how to heal afterward. We cover…  

It's time we stop talking about pornography as if only men struggle with it. Women are struggling with pornography too... but sometimes the motivators behind porn consumption for women are different than men. So why is no one talking about it?? Maybe the silence is due to shame, maybe it’s because it's viewed as a "man's issue," or maybe it's because it opens up parts of our past we don’t want to look at, but the cost of silence is keeping women in cycles of bondage. It's time to talk about it. In this episode, we sit down with Katy Harris who not only shares her journey with pornography, but how she now leads hundreds of women on the journey to freedom. This is a powerful conversation on the power of God's love to break through every chain – even pornography. Don’t forget to join our Finally Free Event (or watch the replay)