The Susan Winter Show

How slow is ‘too slow’ in dating? What’s the difference between waiting and wasting time? Here’s how to tell if your partner’s legitimately setting a reasonable pace as opposed to playing you. We know ‘too hot too soon’ will ruin a relationship. But what about too slow? When is slow way too slow?  1.    The Difference Between Pace and Playing You 2.    Setting a Reasonable Timeframe 3.    Self-Worth vs. ‘The Dream’ How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:

   Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there’s something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem.   Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute you’re up in the hopes that you’ve met somebody, the next minute they reveal themselves to be false. Not to worry. There is a way to survive and thrive in modern dating. Here’s how:   1.     The Key to Staying Centered 2.     Discerning Your Stuff vs Their Stuff 3.     Creating a Positive Vision for the Future Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Ver

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here’s what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game.   The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn’t. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. Here is the better line of thinking to assist you in your recovery and future partnerships. 1.      You Can’t Change a Player 2.      Assessing What Really Happened 3.      Charting a Course Forward Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: I

   Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner— but what you’re really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here’s the test: 1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so.  2. Know your ‘why.’ What’s the real reason behind your request?  3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You’ll be blamed as being “less spiritual” for having a reaction to their bad behavior. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward. These are the foundational principles: 1.    Hope: 2.    Filtering:  3.    Communication: 4.      Process: Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools:  1.     Accepting it’s over 2.     Separating ‘the dream’ from reality 3.     Trust LIFE to bring you love again. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule’ for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.'  3. The Discovery Phase: The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility.    6. The Bonding Phase: This phase is marked by the deepening of your emotions for each other and the strengthening of your relationship.      9. The Evaluation Phase: This is the phase where you begin to determine the long-term potential of this person.  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Bo

   Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart.  ·  Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is based on genuine love and respect. ·  Understand the Game’s Cycles: Discover the hallmark patterns and cycles of a transactional relationship to better navigate and address this con early on. ·  How To Protect Your Heart: Awareness of the game and its cycles will ensure you’re one step ahead and not letting ‘the illusion’ destroy your emotional well-being. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magn

   Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this:    ·   Underlying Factors: Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life   ·   Break the Cycle: Learn how to break the cycle of being addicted to the drama, seeing it for what it is, and understanding the consequences of these actions when done repeatedly, and how it keeps you in opposition to the loving relationship you seek to create.   ·   Create a New Love Model: Through assessing what doesn’t work and seeing how it keeps you from getting the love you want; you can begin to create a new love model that focuses on attraction that is healthy. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:

   Are you agonizing over the fact that it’s your fault for the breakup? Here’s how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation:    ·       Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free. ·       How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation ·       How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that your decision was right, or take action to get your ex back Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   You did everything right—were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here’s how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here’s how to shift your mindset and free your fear Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Monogamy, or Not? Which is the right choice for you? If you don’t know what you want, you’ll get what your partner gives you. Clarity is essential in supporting your dating goals and in choosing the relationship model that’s right for you. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Struggling To Let Go? No one said letting go was easy, but here’s how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find love again.  Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   They enjoy your company but don’t want to commit. What should you do when they like you, but not enough for a relationship? Here’s the answer. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Are you an over-giver? Feeling unappreciated, burnt out, and resentful?  Here’s how over-giving hurts your relationship and what you can do about it. Learn to create a balance between giving and receiving for a healthy, happy partnership. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are they hot and cold with everyone? Or is it ONLY with you? Here’s how to decode hot and cold relationships to learn if you’re the only one being played or you’re just another pawn in their game. For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/

https://youtu.be/vBlEixCNnro   How To Overcome Fear of Rejection And Allow Love Into Your Life: Are you sabotaging love by being more afraid of rejection than filtering for the right kind of partner? If you don’t know what you want, you will get what they give you. Here’s how to set the stage for allowing love into your life and having the type of relationship that’s best for you. For more information please visit my website at https://www.susanwinter.net/