Let's Talk About It

Dr. Glenn and Phyllis join us today to talk about finding sexual and relational connection. The organization Connection Codes will equip you with everything you need to put an end to disconnection in your marriage and parenting. If you long for more in your relationships, this is for you. To learn more visit: moralrevolution.com or more from Dr. Glenn and Phyllis visit www.connectioncodes.co. To help support this podcast, go to moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Join special guest Lauren Vallotton as she unpacks her experience parenting kids through their volatile teenage years. From dealing with different cultures at school to parenting as a step-parent, the overarching goals are providing a safe place and fighting for connection. She provides both emotional and practical strategies to navigate difficult conversations and situations. No bad choice is beyond the reach of love and connection. Find out more at moralrevolution.com/parenting. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

When it comes to dating, have you ever heard someone (maybe yourself) say, "I'm just waiting on God." We've seen that what originates with faith and dependency on God often becomes an excuse to hide and disengage, sometimes out of insecurity or fear-- not true faith. To the other extreme,  where some have overcompensated and are trying to do it all on their own without the partnership with God. Want to find out where you are and what is actually healthy? Check out this episode! Sloane Wilson is the co-leader of Date Well - Women and Abram Goff is in the process of developing Date Well - Men with the team. Together they head up the Singles & Dating component of Moral Revolution.    Learn More:  Date Well - Women - letsdatewell.com Date Well - Men (Waitlist) - https://moralrevolution.us2.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=2a265c4b98c50ed8b7929069c&id=5c5a8f3de0 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Love and lust are a constant battle. But what's the difference and how do you know which one you are following? Join us with Jason Vallotton as we talk about it, and don't forget to pick up your copy of the 40 Day Journey To Purity today! #moralrevolution #moralrevpodcast  #soonerissafer #letstalkaboutit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Cole Zick sits down with Ken Williams to have an honest conversation about the topic of gender disruption in today's culture. Ken vulnerably shares his story about what it looks like to walk in a changed lifestyle out of the realm of homosexuality and into the lifestyle Jesus called him into. His new book "The Journey Out" goes into even greater depth and is available today! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

Cole and Cait discuss sexuality through a biblical perspective. They give you tools and ask questions to help us question, why do we believe what we currently believe and how to identify what we currently believe. They also help bring clarity to what God’s ultimate design was for relationships and sexuality. They challenge you to go on a journey to question the source of your beliefs on sexuality. Giving you a charge to spend more time in the day reading Biblical truth, and reading books that support biblical truth rather than on all the different media options. #moralrevolution #moralrevpodcast #letstalkaboutit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

“If they don’t have the information how are they going to make a good choice” Kristen Jenson, founder of Protect Young Minds, dives into the conversation of porn-proofing your kids and how you can educate your children/family. Everybody with a phone has a portal to porn in their pocket, and as soon as your kids have access to the internet is as soon as the conversation should begin. Kristen has amazing resources that every parent, Christian or not, should have access to. Check her out! RESOURCES   Brain Defense:  https://learn.protectyoungminds.org/a/43560/FTSzPu9B   Website/Books: www.protectyoungminds.org/books Books: - Good pictures bad pictures Jr. For ages 3-7 - Good pictures bad pictures For ages 7-11 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ProtectYM/ Instagram: @protectyoungminds Twitter: @protectYM --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moral-revolution/support

“Sex is not a social construct, it’s the way God has decided to reveal himself” Chris Cruz, Bethel Church’s Young Adult Pastor shares his message on the theology of sex. This message is a mix of his own personal revelation from the Lord partnered with biblical understanding about the difference between human understanding vs God’s real intentions for sex. From intimacy, to conversation, to protection, to emotions, sex is sacred and telling a story that is all put together to be worship unto Him.

Join Debra Fileta who is a licensed professional counselor who is focused on relationships, and an advocate for “healthy people make healthy relationships”. In this podcast Debra, Caitlin and Sloane dive into the common myths about purity culture and break the boxes surrounding them. “It isn’t a toxic purity culture, it’s toxic shame culture. Purity is not toxic, it is the shame, the isolation, the hiding.” Sex is so sacred and is created to be beautiful within the perimeters of marriage. In Debra’s story, shame and guilt didn’t help her break free of sexual sin but the realization that sex is God’s gift and is beautiful in the right place and time. Perspective is empowering, before marriage, but also how it impacts us within a marriage. It is time for all of us to break out of the shame of our histories and step into the fullness God has for us!!! If you want to hear more from Debra her Instagram handle is @truelovedates Resources: True Love Dates by Debra Fileta Choosing Marriage by Debra Fileta Love in eve

Join Damien Giacchino, who is the associate pastor at Real Life Church in Sacramento California and has his masters degree in counseling. Damien joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson and shares his story of how the Lord restored his life from living a worldly life to encountering the Lord and having his story be redeemed. During his pursuit of the Lord, he was given the message of the importance of not awakening love too early. He talks about the effect of hookup culture, the impact of having the voice of fathers/mothers in our lives, the pursuit of abstinence, how to manage loneliness while single and much more!!  If you want to hear more from Damien his Instagram handle is @dgiacchino.

"clarified statistic: parents only needs to be responsive and available 30% of the time to build a healthy attachment " Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson as they dive into attachment styles. Attachment styles the base of how you relate to people from childhood. They create patterns of how you think, feel, and respond to people in relationship based on what you learned when you were younger. Dr. Margaret talks about the different types of attachment styles, and how you can identify which you relate to the most and why.    Dr. Margaret Nagib's Link:  http://www.thedunamisproject.org  Bethel's Transformation Center - Sozo Link: https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/sozo  Check out our website for more content: https://www.moralrevolution.com/

What causes you to get triggered? How do decisions you make pre-marriage impact your marriage? The pain or the pleasure during your first experience of an event creates a mental pathway that your brain later takes you down because it's the path of least resistance. This means EVEN if the situation isn't the same your brain/body can still react as if it is. This week's podcast feature's our directors, Cole and Caitlin Zick as they dive into the science behind sexuality and the scripture, and go after helping you become consciously aware of your subconscious "why", so you can know why you do what you do, feel what you feel, and how you respond the way you do. It’s now on all streaming platforms and YouTube!

Cole and Caitlin Zick invite us into a very raw and authentic take of their stories. What would it look like if parents healthily and intentionally talked about sex where they understand God’s full design for sexuality and that He said YES, not no? They’ll talk about helpful tools for taking an inventory on the impact your childhood had on your current perspective of relationship and sexuality. In that, the depth of your vulnerability will determine the completeness of your healing and wholeness in your marriage.

The negative stigma around going to counseling or therapy is finally starting to lift. Caitlin Zick interviews Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, about how to know when or why to go to a counselor. If you find yourself still stuck after doing the best you know how, it may be time to find a counselor. Dr. Margaret and Caitlin also spend time digging into the topic of trauma. How to identify trauma in your life or from your past and the side effects you may be seeing in your life from unresolved trauma. Caitlin also shares from her story and they unpack the events, experiences and effects from trauma in her teenage years. This conversation is a great “starter” for a potential need to discover and dive into more. Want to connect with Dr. Margaret Nagib? You can find her resources or book an online session here at: thedunamisproject.org You can hear more on this topic for pastors and leaders in the Sex. Church. Culture. Vol. II E-Course (SexChurchCulture.com) from Dr. Margaret Nagib or for th

Relationships can be tricky, long distance relationships are even trickier. Abram & Michelle Goff share some tips and tricks of long-distance relationships from the first visit, to feeling connected in each others lives, to questions and even some adjustments after marriage. If you're in a long-distance relationship or cross cultural one, we hope adds hope and strategy as you navigate through it.

Should We Get Married? - ft/ Danny and Sheri Silk & Cole Zick by Moral Revolution

Take 2 of the MR Podcast with Adam and Karissa King! We are excited to share more of our two part series for married couples with you, and we think that you'll love it as much as we do. Adam and Karissa even offer practical guidance counseling to Cole and Caitlin Zick in this episode, offering an example of what professional marital counseling often looks like. Enjoy! Get the Sexpectation Cards: shop.moralrevolution.com/products/sexpectations-cards-dear-young-married-couple Check out more from Adam and Karissa King: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com More from Cole and Caitlin Zick: www.moralrevolution.com

Yep, you read that right. We are doing a podcast this month on bedroom talk for married couples! We partnered up with Adam and Karissa King, licensed marriage and family therapists, to do a podcast with the Zicks on what it looks like to pursue intimacy and connection in the marriage bed. Grab a cup of coffee, your spouse, and tune into this month’s podcast! Get the Sexpectation Cards: shop.moralrevolution.com/products/sexpectations-cards-dear-young-married-couple Check out more from Adam and Karissa King: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com More from Cole and Caitlin Zick: www.moralrevolution.com

Tom Crandall and Cole Zick address the reality of what happens when you form an intimate sexual connection outside of marriage, and the strong influence that can have on us and our life choices. How can we become free from shame? What can we do to move past attachments that we have with people from our past that we’re tied to because we’ve had sexual experiences with them?

Dann Farrelly and Cole Zick dive into the importance of open and healthy communication in families, marriages, and relationships. Dann gives useful tips for conflict resolution, navigating emotions, and practical insight on how to create a new normal from unhealthy communication habits in the past.