Pure Sex Radio

Sometimes we need an episode to just pour out thoughts and ideas to help men understand their own thoughts and engage their own emotions more successfully. This is such an episode. Listen in as Jonathan and Stephen talk about the following thoughts (and more):I need affectionI did not think I was brokenGrowth is hard workMy only consistency is inconsistencyFor more resources: Men.Bebroken.comEmotional Training for Men Webinar Series Book: Untangling Emotions by Groves and SmithToday's Sponsor: CovenantEyes -- try them out for FREE for 30 days at CovenantEyes.com and use promo code BEBROKEN.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

How do others see you when it comes to emotional growth -- are you open or closed? Are you open to growing and learning and maturing, or are you closed, fixed, and "hunkered down" emotionally? In this episode, we share many stories as examples to help you understand whether you are open or closed, and how you can continue on a journey of greater emotional health and maturity.Book: Untangling Emotions by Groves and SmithEmotional Training for Men video seriesPodcasts from the Archives:Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional SystemA Biblical Framework for EmotionsA 7-Day Challenge for Emotional GrowthToday's Sponsor: CovenantEyes -- try them out for FREE for 30 days at CovenantEyes.com and use promo code BEBROKEN.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Does porn affect men the same at different ages and stages of life? Today's guest, Vern Tomke, will walk us through how porn affects men in each stage of life, starting in adolescence and moving all the way through age 60+. Vern also provides insights into how to beat porn at every age and stage -- and how to grow up into godly maturity and wisdom!Free Download of this material: https://www.bandofbrothers.care/free-downloadsLearn more about Vern and his ministry at BandofBrothers.care.More Resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com.Today's Sponsor: CovenantEyes -- try them out for FREE for 30 days at CovenantEyes.com and use promo code BEBROKEN. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Many women struggle with porn and other unwanted sexual patterns in silence and secrecy. In this episode, Crystal Renaud Day joins us to share her story and the amazing ministry she has had to women over the past 10+ years. Listen in to discover that there is hope for total freedom for women struggling with porn and other sexual brokenness issues.Learn more about Crystal and her ministry: SheRecovery.comFind a group: Small Groups Online*More resources for women: Women.Bebroken.com*this is an affiliate link. Be Broken may receive commissions on purchases through this link.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Originally Aired: October 15, 2019Your brain is an organ in your body that can break down, especially when there has been trauma or chaos in your history. But so often Christians will project shame on anyone who tries to address brain health with any other tools than "spiritual" resources. But God gives us many tangible tools (medicine) in addition to intangible resources (prayer, talk therapy, etc.). This episode helps you understand how to use all the available resources for better brain health and more peace.Find a counselor: Counselors.Bebroken.comBook: This is Your Brain on Joy by Dr. Earl HenslinWorkbook: A Guide for Listening and Inner-Healing PrayerMore recovery resources: Bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Originally Aired: September 10, 2019How can a couple who has experienced sexual betrayal rebuild healthy sexuality? Can such restoration even take place? In this episode, we invite back MJ Denis, a professional counselor with lots of experience in this field, to help us understand healthy sexuality and how to restore it when it has been violated.Learn more about MJWatch video of episodeHelp for Husbands: Men.Bebroken.comHelp for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Drew was a kid who loved Jesus and hated porn, but still couldn't stop his unwanted behavior. Are you a man who can identify with this vicious cycle? In this episode, our guest is Drew Boa, the founder of Husband Material, a ministry to help men outgrow porn by changing your brain, healing your heart, and saving your relationship. If you want to discover hope for true freedom from porn, tune in to hear Drew's story and practical insights.Learn more about Drew and his ministry: HusbandMaterial.com40-Day Online Course for Men: 40Days.PureLifeAcademy.orgMore resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Most parents don't feel "bold" or confident when it comes to helping their kids navigate the landscape of porn in the culture. In this episode, our guests Josh Glaser and Daniel Weiss share research and insights from their just-released book, Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World. Parents, take a deep breath and listen in to gain hope and courage in this vital journey with your kids.Get the book: TreadingBoldly.comLearn more about Josh and Regeneration at RegenerationMinistries.org.Learn more about Daniel and Brushfires at BrushfiresFoundation.org.More help for families: Family.Bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

We are made in God's image. Reflecting God will require we go on a journey of emotional healing and growth. In this episode, we unpack 6 insights and 6 skills for making excellent emotional connections. Listen in if you would like to learn and grow in your emotional fitness and relational connectedness.Book: Untangling Emotions by Groves & SmithSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

What happens when a marriage ends due to porn and sex addiction? Is all lost for hope and healing? And what about the children? In this episode, Reese and Sharon share their story of marriage, divorce, and the power of God to heal wounds and redeem purpose even when a marriage is not restored. Join us to discover how God works even (or especially) in the messiness of life to bring hope, healing, and new life. Learn more about Reese and his ministry at TheSilentAddiction.com.Blog post: Where to Get Help for Porn Addiction Counseling help for individuals and couples: Counselors.Bebroken.com Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.com Help for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Men who are tired of porn often think that the goal of quitting is just to not view porn anymore. But is that all there is to true recovery? Or is freedom from porn more than just an absence of its presence? In this episode, our guest Sathiya Sam joins us to share his story and the powerful and practical principles he uses to train men to live totally free from porn. Listen in to discover the difference between emotional health and emotional fitness and why this matters to living free from porn. Learn more at SathiyaSam.com. Additional resources for men: Men.Bebroken.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Barb never expected her son would get hooked on porn. But he did. No parents hope for their children to get swept away by porn. But what happens when they do? In this episode, Barb Winters shares her story of navigating this journey with her son and the many insights she has gained. Tune in if you are a parent wanting hope and practical help for addressing porn with your kids.Follow Barb on her blog: HopefulMom.net Online Course for Parents and Teens: GamePlan.PureLifeAcademy.org More resources for families: Family.Bebroken.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

How do anxiety and worry affect our lives, our sexuality, and even our biology -- especially our brains? In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Degler helps us understand in practical terms how our brains can "flip out" and how to bring it back into balance. If you would like greater balance and "sanity" in your life and sexual struggles, you won't want to miss this vital and insightful interview.Learn more about Jennifer and her resources: JenniferDegler.com Your Brain on Porn by Dr. Gary Wilson Stress, Fear, and the Love of God Webinar Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The realities of life can be difficult and painful. We want relief, but we often seek it in the form of escape into fantasy. In this episode, we explore the issue of fantasy and how to avoid what we call the "fantasy bubble" -- a place of unhealthy escape into imagination that pulls us away from truth and community instead of toward them. If you struggle with unhealthy fantasy, you will be encouraged and motivated with practical insights and actions to break free.Book: Taking Every Thought Captive by Dr. Mark Laaser Find a support group at Groups.Bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

"The danger is that for men and women in ministry there is little to no training, guidance, and supervision that is ever offered specifically in the area of sexual wholeness and integrity." These words from our guest, Nick Stumbo, lay the foundation for this episode. Nick was a pastor for 15 years and now leads the sexual integrity ministry Pure Desire. Our conversation will unpack sexual sin and leaders in the church; what to do when a leader is struggling or failing, and how to better prepare leaders to cultivate a personal and corporate culture of sexual wholeness and integrity.For pastors looking for confidential help: PureDesire.org. Blog: The Christian Response to Moral Failure in the Church Books: Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey of Grace Safe: Creating a Culture of Grace in a Climate of Shame Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Can any good come out of a 30-year sex addiction? Is God willing and able to use such a life for redemptive purposes? Thankfully, yes! In this episode, Steve Etner shares his story of deep sexual brokenness, his journey out of the dark and into the Light through the process of discipleship, and how he now helps other men break free from any unwanted sexual behaviors from a biblical framework. If you are a man looking for hope in what seems like a hopeless situation, find encouragement and inspiration from Steve's story and insights.Learn more about Steve and his resources: ThePurityCoach.com Grace-Based Recovery More Resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Every marriage has challenges related to sexual brokenness. In this episode, Matt and Laurie Krieg share their story of what can be called a "mixed-orientation" marriage, which means one spouse struggles with same-sex attractions. But far beyond the "label" Matt and Laurie want to share the beauty and purpose of God's design for marriage and sex that brings hope to other couples no matter the types of sexual brokenness that have affected their relationship.Get Matt and Laurie's Book: https://lauriekrieg.com/impossible-marriageMore resources from Laurie: https://lauriekrieg.comCounseling and Care: https://caringwell.netSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

God designed sex to give us a physical picture of what He desires in relationship with us: unbroken, unhindered intimacy. In this episode, Dr. Carol will help us understand God's beautiful design for sex and intimacy, and how this design can transform what she calls "sexpectations." To learn more about Dr. Carol and her resources, visit DrCarolMinistries.com. To enroll in the Sexpectations course, visit YourSexpectations.com/bebroken.**This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The number one request we get from parents is how to respond to discovering their child looking at porn. In this episode, John Fort shares about our new online course for parents and teens to go through together in answering this question. Join us as we give a summary of the content of this course and how parents and their kids can benefit. When you enroll, use coupon code PSR to get 10% off. Learn more about the Family Game Plan course and enroll: GamePlan.PureLifeAcademy.org. More Family Care Resources: Family.Bebroken.com Collaborators on Course:McKenzie Ekman of First-Image.org Dan Martin of PureHope.net John Fort of Bebroken.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

What if what you thought was your sexual brokenness problem isn't the actual thing that needs to be "fixed"? What if the solution ran much deeper than just behavior modification? In this episode, we highlight the need to pursue healthy and vibrant intimate connections with God and others. And merely stopping unhealthy sexual behaviors will never automatically create these intimate connections. Listen in to gain insights and practical questions to ask yourself to help you build deeper connections.Devotional for couples: 40 Days to Oneness Made for Purity Online CourseSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations