Pure Sex Radio

We have a special guest on the program today. Brendan Botha was raised in a broken home in South Africa, and was introduced to porn at an early age. In this episode, Brendan shares his story of brokenness, faith, recovery, and what it looks like to pursue authentic, biblical manhood. May you be encouraged by his story to pursue greater integrity in your own life.Learn more about Brendan and his ministry at Break-Free.co.za.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Lucille Williams has ministered to couples and families for over 25 years. She has a strong desire to safeguard marriages, especially when it comes to what happens in the bedroom. In this episode, Lucille shares some of her story and gives lots of insights for couples who want to improve intimacy in their marriage. To learn more about Lucille and her book, The Intimacy You Crave, visit LuSays.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Are you a single woman who desires to be married, or maybe are already in a dating relationship that has potential for marriage? Then this episode will help you to ask strategic questions of your boyfriend to understand him better and make an informed decision about whatever the next steps might be in the relationship. These questions were developed by men for the sake of helping women know a man much, much better.The Questions:Ask him to make all the plans for one month.Does he do a lot of "lovey dovey" talk?Ask when and how he was introduced to porn.How does he manage sexual struggles?What is he doing to train himself to practice self-control?What are his boundaries for watching TV and movies?How does he handle stress?How dose he handle differences?Is he insightful about himself?Does he listen to know you or to "work" you?What are his values?Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Many women have faced the terrible trauma of sexual abuse and rape. How can a woman heal and recover from such deep pain? In this episode, Joy Skarka shares her personal story of sexual brokenness and how the grace of God intersected with her pain to bring lasting healing and freedom. Wherever you are in your journey, may Joy's story bring you hope and courage.For helpful resources for women, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com or Women.Bebroken.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Our kids view over 14 billion porn videos every year. What can parents do to protect their children from being swept away by the online porn epidemic? In this episode, John Van Arnam, the founder of The Third Talk, shares his expertise and experience in helping parents and kids to address porn in ways that doesn't shame or blame.To learn more about John and his resources, visit TheThirdTalk.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

When do men go looking for porn or some other kind of sexual escape? And why do they seek it out? Finally, how does a man change this unhealthy pattern? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen explore many various reasons for when and why men look for porn, and how to refocus on healthier ways to solve emotional and circumstantial difficulties.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

For wives facing the difficulty of sexual betrayal trauma the journey to wholeness travels along a continuum of healing, growing, and serving. And it is imperative that this journey take place in a safe environment. In this episode, we have a panel of women who serve as online care group leaders in our Wives Care ministry. They have traveled this road themselves and share their personal connection to this ministry along with encouraging words to any wives who want healing from sexual betrayal trauma. Learn more about Online Care Groups for Wives at WivesCare.Bebroken.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

What happens when a couple realizes that porn addiction is not merely a "problem" to be fixed? What if there is far more to it than that? How can a couple navigate the possibility of restoration when "recovery" doesn't fit their pre-conceived paradigm? In this episode, we hear the story of Garren and Lyschel Burket. Gain a new perspective for restoration that brings true hope and joy.Learn more about Lyschel's ministry to betrayed wives at HopeRedefined.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Sexual betrayal trauma has a profound impact on a wife emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. The impact can shake the faith of the most deeply rooted Christian woman. How can she heal? And is there hope for restoration? In this episode, Lyschel Burket shares her story and what she has learned about healing from betrayal and the power of God in our weakness.Learn more about Lyschel and her ministry at HopeRedefined.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Did Jesus have anything to say about understanding our emotions? Human beings are rather predictable when it comes to our emotional systems, yet we often talk as if it's impossible to understand our emotions. In this episode, Stephen shares some insights he has gained over decades of studying emotional systems and gives us a biblical framework to see how we can manage our emotions in healthier ways.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Why do you and I need Jesus? In times of crisis and disruption (or temptation) our priorities are exposed, whether good or bad. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen share why they love and trust Jesus. Maybe this will encourage you to examine your own relationship with Jesus and how you can pursue Him more faithfully and fully.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

There is truly nowhere on earth that sexual struggles don't exist for teens. But this doesn't mean we need to be fearful or hopeless as parents or educators. In this episode, our guest Sheila Harkins shares her experience as a mom and educator in helping teens navigate the difficulty and challenges of sexuality (and other tough subjects). Gain hope and help in building stronger connections with your teens. Learn more about Sheila and her insights at SheilaHarkins.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Is there hope for someone labeled a sex offender? This is a heavy and hard subject to address. But in this episode, we hear from a wife who has traveled this road with her family. Her husband is serving a 12-year sentence due to viewing illegal pornography. Listen in to learn just how far the grace of God can reach -- and how you can help support and care for these families affected by criminal sex offenses.For additional help, visit TexasVoices.org. (Please reach out to your senators to ask for home confinement for SO's who pose no threat to the community and have families who want them home.)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

How can your marriage survive sexual betrayal (of any kind)? And how important and helpful is counseling to this process? In this episode, our guest Dan Drake will help us understand therapeutic disclosure; what it is, what its role is in the restoration process, and how to do it effectively. If you feel stuck in your marriage, this program might help you take next steps toward greater hope and healing.Learn more about resources for Therapeutic Disclosure at DisclosureHope.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

The big question a porn addict must answer in order to recover is: Do you really want to be free and sober? In this episode, our special guest Carl Thomas shares his story of addiction and recovery -- and the power of community for actually living free from porn. Listen in to find hope and resources for total transformation.Learn more about Carl and his ministry at LiveFreeCommunity.org.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

A listener reached out to us to address how alcohol and sex combined can be detrimental to intimacy in marriage. Our guest, Mark Denison, will help us explore the dynamics and dangers of mixing this substance and behavior, and why recovery is necessary for relational health.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

There is a Proverb that says, "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise." (13:20) Stephen Cervantes has been an excellent marriage counselor for over 30 years. He is wise in understanding dynamics of healthy and thriving relationships. In this episode, Stephen shares lots of insights to help couples grow and flourish in their relationship.Learn more about Stephen at HopeCounseling.com. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

How much does one's culture shape their sexuality? And how does that aid or hinder recovery from sexual addictions? Sam Louie is an Asian-American who knows personally how difficult it can be to break free from sexual shame and grow in wholeness and sobriety. In this episode, Sam shares his story and some insights for dealing with deep shame surrounding sexual brokenness.Learn more about Sam and his resources at SamLouieMFT.com or SamLouieSpeaks.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Do you struggle with answering the "why" question surrounding your sexually addictive behaviors? What is underneath these compulsive actions? In this episode, Eddie Capparruci helps us unpack what he describes as your "inner child" and how understanding who this is will unlock significant growth in your recovery. For more info on Eddie and his ministry, visit InnerChild-SexAddiction.com.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Many of us don't pay much attention to how we talk. Especially if we have a "negative talk" template. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen unpack this template to help you recognize if you talk in this unhealthy way -- and provide insights and tips for how to reduce or eliminate this kind of talking from your life. Learn how to talk WITH people instead of AT them.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations