Practically Kinky Podcast



Practically kinky is a podcast devoted to practical, hands-on discussions about kink: how to enjoy it to the full, blend it with your vanilla life and make the whole shibang work.


  • Ep 37 - Listener Feedback

    12/11/2014 Duración: 40min

    AlphaDomme and Betaboy discuss some listener feedback, shamelessly plug some of their stuffs and generally discuss the way their relationship works. If you haven't done so already, please subscribe to our podcast in Itunes or in any other RSS reader that floats your boat. You can find our Itunes feed here. 

  • Ep 36 - Announcing Practically Kinky

    03/11/2014 Duración: 27min

    We have a special announcement to make. The Men Submit podcast is leveling up! A name change is imminent and a number of new cool features are in the pipeline. And if all that isn’t excitement enough, betaboy gets his testicles repeatedly zapped with a dog collar.

  • Ep 35 - Roles In Kink

    22/10/2014 Duración: 55min

    Roles can be confusing in kink. You got your kajiras, your slaves, your tops, your bottoms, your pets, your toys your masters and mistresses and kinksters – to name but a few. In this episode we take a quick walk through the vast array of commonly used roles in the world of kink and offer our opinions on what they mean. If you are a newb to kink this episode is for you.

  • Ep 34 - Men!

    14/10/2014 Duración: 01h35min

    Men! This podcast is all about that moment of exasperation where women roll their eyes and utter the word “men” as though it were a swear word. It’s a sad fact that many men out there can behave like complete and total dicks when it comes to meeting women. This podcast episode casts a critical gaze over the vast array of dick moves men regularly perpetrate in the kink world. We explore the reasons behind, impact of and ways of avoiding said dickishness. This episode was recorded while we were drinking wine. It helped.

  • Ep 33 - An Interview With

    26/08/2014 Duración: 35min

    Today we interview Kristina, CEO of, a business that sells beautiful lingerie for men. She explains the history of the company, what inspired the bold move to wanting to make men look pretty and she tells us some stories of acceptance and prejudice. Betaboy has been wearing xdress undies for a few weeks now and is a very happy camper. AlphaDomme has no complaints either, although imho she has spent a little bit too long marvelling at the pictures she received of gorgeous models in said attire. You have to check this stuff out. You’ll find it at

  • Ep 32 - Stealth Submission

    20/08/2014 Duración: 01h13min

    In this episode we gab about stealth submission – or as AlphaDomme terms it, “stealth topping”. This is the idea that a submissive male can quietly sneak his submission into a vanilla relationship. We talk about why this tactic fails the great majority of the time and what better approaches a submissive guy can take if he desires to introduce power exchange into his relationship. Then our conversation takes a sharp left turn and shifts heavily into AlphaDomme’s and MissRose’s attitude toward penises, in their many and varied forms.

  • Ep 31 - Setting a scene: Part Two

    28/07/2014 Duración: 18min

    In this follow up scene, AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy play out the scene they had planned and then debrief on what it felt like. The recording quality is not brilliant (on account of the fact that it was recorded in a bedroom!) but you’ll hear a lot of screaming and laughing, which hopefully will make up for any technical deficiencies.

  • Ep 30 - Setting a scene: Part One

    16/07/2014 Duración: 01h02min

    AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy get together to talk in detail about setting a scene. What do guys like? What do women like? How do you find a middle ground? Where does safety fit in? How do you find creative new ideas? All good questions to discuss but our plans are far more ambitious. We go on to plan an actual, bona fide scene and in part two you will hear how it all goes down. Enjoy!

  • Ep 29 - Wanted

    01/07/2014 Duración: 52min

    Wanted. After addressing some listener feedback, in this episode we talk about our poly adventures, and AlphaDomme’s most recent efforts at finding another submissive male with whom to share a relationship.

  • Ep 28 - The Punishment Experiment

    16/06/2014 Duración: 50min

    The Punishment Experiment. This episode captures a Sunday afternoon living room conversation. This week AlphaDomme and I stumbled into an interesting (and at times emotionally challenging) discussion about the nature of punishment in a FLR. On Sunday we sat down and reflected on everything we had gone over and decided. We thought we would give listeners a window on that conversation. The take home message from this discussion, we feel, is that the relationship must always take precedence over kink.

  • Ep 27 - Body Worship

    11/06/2014 Duración: 01h12min

    In this episode we have the great pleasure of introducing Miss Rose, Betaboy’s new domme and AlphaDomme’s metamour. After Betaboy absolutely embarrasses himself gushing at how happy and lucky he feels to be recording a podcast with two mistresses in attendance we get down to the nitty gritty and talk about body worship: what it is, what makes it hot, how to do it and the mental spaces required to make it good. This is our first three way conversation and I think regular listeners will note the excitement as we tumble our way through this sexy discussion topic.

  • Ep 26 - Three Things

    03/06/2014 Duración: 40min

    In this episode we talk about our favorite things, and spoilers: raindrops on roses do not get a mention. We also talk about a big change in our relationships status and offer some first impressions of our foray into female led polyamory.

  • Ep 25 - National Coalition For Sexual Freedom

    05/05/2014 Duración: 42min

    First off in this episode we debrief (pun intended) on the Men Submit CFNM cocktail party. In short it was a riotously awesome success. Hurrah! Cock decoration and impact play for everyone. Then we spoke with Susan Wright of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom to get a sense of what they do and why they do it. Visit their website here.There are some great services you’ll find in the site. It is worth taking the time to explore everything they have to offer. One resource in particular that we direct our users to again and again is the Kink Aware Professionals Directory. The Kink Aware Professionals Directory is the most comprehensive online database of kink aware and kink friendly doctors, therapist, lawyers and other professionals. This is your go to resource if you are seeking professional help or representation and require a kink friendly and aware ear.

  • Ep 24 - Anal Play

    17/04/2014 Duración: 45min

    In this episode we talk with Eva Blake, a certified sexological body worker, about all things anal play. A lot of people out there (both ‘inserters’ and ‘insertees’) are drawn to anal play but find themselves a bit unsure of where to begin, what to expect and how to do it. In this podcast, Eva answers all these questions and then some. What positions work best? How to do it safely? What kinds of sensations can you expect? All shall be revealed. Eva was incredibly generous with her time and wisdom in this episode and we really want to thank her. Find her website here.

  • Ep 23 - Kinkfest

    27/03/2014 Duración: 49min

    In this episode we share our impressions of KinkFest, an amazing few days of all things kink which we recently both attended in Portland. Guys, this event was ridiculously fun and enlightening and we recommend the hell out of it!

  • Ep 22 - Shame

    13/03/2014 Duración: 42min

    Shame! What is it good for? (Absolutely Nothing!)In this podcast we get the ball rolling by talking about Kinkfest, a big kink event coming up in Portland. We’re both really, really, really, really excited about this event. (Really). We talk through some of the events they have lined up and generally enthuse about the “infamous” parties in our near future.

  • Ep 21 - How To Write A Post (without it blowing up in your face)

    14/02/2014 Duración: 29min

    This podcast is about how to write a post on a kink forum without the whole thing blowing up in your face. I know it sounds a bit negative, but a lot of people out there have been burnt by a negative reaction to a post submitted in an online forum like Fetlife, She Makes The Rules or even this site. Now don’t get us wrong – we think that the resources available to learn and talk about kink online are amazing and valuable. If you are new to kink (or even if you aren’t) one of the best ways to get the most out of life is to learn from other people and to get involved in communities of like minded people online.The thing is, to get the best result and to avoid big, nasty unpleasantness you need to do it right. Get it wrong and there’s a good chance you could find yourself on the explody end of a blog grenade of insults, criticism and general bad karma. Life’s too short for this kind of unpleasantness! In this podcast episode, AlphaDomme gives you the scoop on three things you can do to minimize your risk of a ka

  • Ep 20 - Fun With Pervertibles

    04/02/2014 Duración: 01h03min

    In this podcast we talk about the chaotic, kinky frenzied fun of playing with pervertibles. ‘What are these pervertemawatchits of which you speak?’ I hear you ask with jowl-wobbling indignation. It’s easy really. Pervertibles are pretty much anything. Glad I could clear that up for you! Pervertibles are, in essence, any household “thing” that has been repurposed (or perverted if you will) to be a kink toy. The beauty of kink is that you can get creative. Sure you can spend thousands of dollars at your local kink store purchasing everything that inserts, inflates and incapacitates … or you could just raid your kitchen drawers! That is what this podcast is all about: having fun with the stuff you have to hand.Show Notes

  • Ep 19 - Twenty Questions on Sadism

    29/01/2014 Duración: 01h44min

    We really had fun recording this one! Four dominant ladies at different points along the sadism continuum agreed to sit down and record a frank and fearless discussion about sadism: how it works, how it looks and how it feels. The discussion was amazingly candid and revealed some fascinating variations and contrasts in what it means to have a sadistic streak. … We also met Gordon the Magnificent, but that’s too complicated to go into right now.Show Notes

  • Ep 18 - The Future

    20/01/2014 Duración: 26min

    Times they are a changin’. In this podcast we talk about the future of Men Submit. Some important changes are in the works, including a bigger focus on producing quality podcasts about a wide range of issues relating to female led relationships. We also give you some early information about a new partnership we are forming with a “sister site”, She Makes The Rules. Finally, we announce the launch of our brand spanking shiny and new book, “Finding Your submissive”, in the process revealing a deep rift in our admiration for the acting talents of Tony Danza. All this and more in episode eighteen of our illustrious podcast.

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