Elder Law Report

Family conflict rarely starts with money—it starts with silence. We tackle the three biggest estate planning mistakes that turn small gaps into full-blown feuds: poor communication, procrastination, and ignoring the real price of long-term care. With attorney Haley Madsen joining Greg McIntyre, we share a clear, practical roadmap to protect your loved ones, your home, and your peace of mind.First, we unpack why secrecy around roles—agent under a durable power of attorney, executor, trustee, and successors—creates suspicion and delays when decisions must be made fast. You’ll hear how to tell your spouse and adult children exactly what you’ve assigned, what you expect, and where documents live, plus smart ways to split duties based on strengths without fueling sibling rivalries. We also talk candidly about how kids can start the planning conversation with reluctant parents and keep it focused on logistics, not fear.Next, we confront the cost of waiting. From emergency guardianship to rushed probate, last‑minute