Robot Monk Xian'er

 Real HelpAt the sight of others' faults, it is out of loving-kindness and compassion that we develop the spirit of helping them,and it is out of wisdom that we observe the right way to assist them. However,we tend to criticize and blame others for venting our own afflictions while finding faults with others, which seems to say that we are doing for their good, but actually shows our lack of loving-kindness, compassion, and wisdom. The biggest problem is that we still take such an action of "speakin gone's mind freely" as a merit, not willing to rectify it. Observe our own momentary thoughts anytime and anywhere, and face up to our own afflictions. This is exactly a kind of cultivation and practice. Do not pack up ourselves with delusion, prejudice and words. It is not straigh tforward to disguise our afflictions and close our hearts. Being kind is not to expect the same in return from others, but due to our own principle of conducting ourselves. Adherence to this point makes it possible to rea