Robot Monk Xian'er

Tame oneselfIf the relationship between children and parents is not good, it indicates that both sides have room for improvement. Parents don’t know how to raise their children and children do not know how to love their parents. Bad relationship is only the fruition. The best remedy is for both sides to change and to grow up together. However, to initiate this step,both parents and children need to start from themselves. Then, how? Firstly, put aside the other side's fault. Seriously reflect and admit one’s own mistakes, and work hard to correct them. When encountering with conflict, think more from the other one’s shoes and ponder “why did he/she do this? What did she/he need?” instead of focusing on our own needs and excuses.  People grow up from different backgrounds, with different education and experience, therefore, they differ in their view of life, value system, temperament and personality etc. It is hard to conform with others or push others to fit our own ideals. Whoever insists will suffe