Broke Girl Therapy With Stefanie Maegan

Like it's been said before, ghosting someone in this day and age is extremely common. We meet someone online or go on one date and decide, "eh, I don't feel like talking to them again." In my opinion, the conversation / "closure" isn't really needed. How about if it was a friends with benefits situation or if you were in an ACTUAL relationship with this person? Is it damaging to us if we don't ever get the real reason why they decide to end the relationship? For me, my ex-friends with benefits ("Charles")went silent and my head has been spinning ever since. BUT that's the beauty of having a "therapeutic" podcast. He won't give me the closure, so I owe it to myself. THANK YOU, NEXT. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Most of the time on this show, the perspective comes from a heterosexual's point of view. I was inspired by the last episode, "Gender Roles" and noticed how Sixelaafiercee and I only spoke on a one sided frame of reference. How about the gay community? There's always this talk about the importance of "gender roles", but how does it come to play in a relationship when both parties are of the same gender? Do gender roles even matter? I'm curious to know the dynamic, so I invited Richard (a "power bottom") onto the pod to further explain how the dynamic of dating, sex, and relationships work in the community of gay men. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I've been on a lot of great dates, but I've also been on a lot of horrible dates as well. This one by far, had to be the worst one. For those who follow me on Instagram, saw that I got excited for a "spontaneous" date but then the next post was me saying that my date dropped me off in the middle of Hollywood LOLOLOLOLOL Of course, everyone is asking "WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED!?" Thankfully, I have a podcast to tell you all about it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The holidays are upon us and cuffing season has begun. There's something about the holiday spirit that influences most of us single b*tches (or is it just me?) to want to find a companion(s) for the holidays. According to the internet, there's a specific timeline that naturally happens when a relationship flourishes during this period. Rose and I talk about how relevant this timeline is to our current dating situation and see if any of these guys would be great potential candidates for this year's cuffing season. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Nowadays, dating is mostly all digital. We find someone through an app, we get to know someone through their Instagram, and we freak out if we don't get a text back. Back in the day, they didn't have any of that. Men had to actually pursue women in person and no one had an Instagram to stalk and find out who their ex is (not that I do that or anything, lolz). Something else has shifted, and it's the opinions of what men and women bring to the table to make a successful relationship. My dad and his best friend share their opinions and experiences on how it was back in the day. Although I don't agree with everything, I hope this showcases how much has really changed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My weight is my biggest insecurity, and it plays a huge part of the difficulties I have with dating and having sex. "Does he like thick or fat women?" is the first question I ask myself when I'm interested in someone. Maybe that's why I feel more comfortable going for a thicker dude vs someone who is a lot slimmer than me. That's so fu*king twisted, and I don't want to feel that way anymore. Because who cares?????? It also frustrates me when I hear or see people body shame another person. If anything, it shows me how insecure you are. Why do you care so much? Maybe work on yourself first before putting down other people. "Kiss my fat ass" - Tyra Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The hookup culture: The detached, non-emotional, and highly sexual dating culture. Everyone is just "hanging out" and "talking" tbh. Naturally I am a monogamous and romantic person in a relationship. Because of this movement, I've been trained and almost brainwashed into thinking I need to be detached in order to survive dating in LA. Ava, originally from the Mid-west (full of monogamy), can agree that she herself too had to adjust in order to keep afloat in today's hookup culture. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ladies, how many times have we all dealt with a "fu*kboy"? I'm sure too many to count, tbh. As its been said over and over (also the reason why I started this pod), I have a bad habit for always falling for the wrong dudes. Leave me alone, I have a lot of feelings lol On this episode of Broke Girl Therapy, I wanted to pick Joey's brain about a man's perspective. Running to my girl friends for advice can be really empowering, but knowing the truth of a man's mind is a lot more enlightening. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There's a whole THOT-process to a thirst trap. It's used to attract someone you're interested in or sometimes, unfortunately, the ones that you're not. Either way, it's great to feel validated (let's be honest people). So what do you do when you're out hunting in the wild setting traps? For some, it's dropping a bomb a*s selfie on Instagram and for others it's whipping out a fan in the middle of the dance floor inside a nightclub. On this episode of Broke Girl Therapy, Rose and I talk about all the different ways we do to attract men and our own THOT-process while doing it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the past, I came across men who didn't care or had the patience to make sure that I climaxed. Sadly, I know A LOT of women can relate. Having an orgasm can sometimes be really fu*king hard, but I'm lucky enough to have someone like "Charles" to help me explore myself during this sexual liberation era of my life. To keep everything on brand, of course I decided to bring him on da pod to openly discuss what we do to make sure that I get mine. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do we always prefer a bigger penis?? Does that even matter?Vincent and I both discuss the cliche penis standard, and if it really is a requirement or not. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I will not hide the fact that I am psycho lurker and investigator when I need to be. It's 2018, and I'm sure we all have done a fair amount of social media stalking at this point. But how far do you go? For some people, it's looking at the comments section and for others it's creating a fake page specifically for lurking reasons. Either way...is it healthy or are we just insecure? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Steff goes on a Tinder date with a daddy dom. What does she do? Invites him on the pod. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For the most part, we have all been through a "hoe phase". There is no shame in the hoe game, if anything, it builds character. Steff came to a conclusion during her time being celibate that she's never really experienced sex in a liberating way. She invites her friend Jafra on da pod to teach her the rules on how to master "The Hoe Phase". Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you guys do to prep for a dick appointment? Everyone has their own routine to prepare themselves when they know something is about to “pop off". In this episode of Broke Girl Therapy, Steff and Vincent intimately share their standard process before attending a "dick appointment". Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Steff joins her brother’s bachelor party in Texas and it was everything you can ever expect. Booze, strippers, and regrets. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Steff is coming up on her one year of celibacy on March 18th. Through the past year of her cleanse, she's recognized something that she's never done before and discusses those realizations with Alexis. After one year of no sex, Steff is ready to explore. SAVAGE STEFF 2018 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

YAY IT'S STEFF'S BIRTHDAY AKA JILL'S 3 YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF LOSING HER VIRGINITY. Take a shot of Fireball with Steff & Jill as they hilariously discuss when they lost their virginities. Hint: Steff's birthday, one night stand, and someone popped their cherry at church. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this very sex-rated & drunk episode of Broke Girl Therapy, Steff sits down with new friends, Walker & Danquai, to discuss their experiences with sex toys. Parental advisory advised (duh it's BGT). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices